Dear John,

One of my very best friends of several years started dating a new man about eight months ago.

Dear John,

I am young, talented, educated and driven. But I can’t seem to find a job!

Now don’t get me wrong, I am not one of those stuck up educated young people who refuse to get a job unless its high paying and what they want. I came back from university two years ago and I am yet to get a proper job.

Dear Very Smart Brotha,

Something happened this weekend that has me questioning what men really want. Let me start off by telling you a little about myself. I am medium height, light skinned with long good hair and light eyes and I have big legs, hips and butt.

I am a young woman, in my early twenties. A very proud BLACK woman. I have had very few boy friends in my lifetime, four to be exact.

However, I think I may be attracted to white men. I am not purposely seeking out white men, but it seems my attraction level goes up whenever I meet them.